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Early Onset Teenage Attitude
By: Weary Parent    0 days 5 hours 27 minutes ago
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My 9-year-old daughter is on the cusp of tweenagerhood. She still likes princesses and Tinkerbell and still cuddles with a stuffed bunny at night. But she also loves everything Miley Cyrus, Jonas Brothers…well basically any of those tween shows on the Disney Channel.

However, her twin brother isn’t teetering on the edge of being a tween. He’s trying to skip right over it and move on in to the teenage years. I blame his older brothers (our teens). He worships the ground the teens walk on and wants to do every single thing they do. (And they, in turn, pick on him because that’s what teens do to younger siblings…until I have to threaten to put them in time out like when they were youngin’s.)

Today I asked my 9-year-old son to hold my camera so I could take off my jacket (because it was hot standing in the ridiculously long line to get signatures from the characters from Bolt). A couple years ago we were in Chicago and I let him take pictures with my old point and shoot. He ended up dropping that camera on the ground. Right on the lens. And it broke. (To be fair his not-yet-a-teen brother was trying to grab the camera out of his hand at the time.) In any event, I was none to pleased. So today I reminded him to be careful and not drop my camera.

He looked at me with a look of disgust and said, “I wouldn’t drop your camera.”

“Umm…remember what happened to my last camera? When we were in Chicago?” I reminded him.

“Mom,” he said with all the attitude he could muster, “I’m NINE now. I’m much older.”

Oh the teenage attitude starts at such an early age nowadays.

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Teenage Horseplay
By: Weary Parent    1 days 7 hours 32 minutes ago
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What is the deal with boys and horseplay? If you do a google search for “teen boys horseplay” you get more than 8,000 hits of things like “Teen drowned after horseplay push” and “Student stabbed in apparent horseplay” or “Three Boy Scouts burned during horseplay.” Boys just cannot keep their hands to themselves. And their idea of a good time is smacking each other. I just don’t understand it.

Standing in lineAt Disney World we tend to be standing around quite a bit. Even during this “off peak” time of year we still encounter some longish lines at some of the most popular rides. My 9-year-old daughter stands still while daydreaming, singing or talking to us. The boys wrestle. They poke each other. They kick each other. They spin around and bump in to the people behind us. Anything but stand still.

And then you know where the horseplay leads. Right in to real fighting. Name calling. Punching. And crying. Or maybe that’s just me crying.

I realize many boys aren’t wired to sit still like many girls, but do they have to roughhouse every single time? Can’t they ever just stand still? I think they might be completely incapable.

Of course, our biggest problem right now is (1) they are excited about being at Disney World and riding all these cool rides and seeing all these cool characters and not having to go to school. And (2) they are a wee bit tired because we are going to bed late and getting up early plus they are spending all day walking and standing.

I hope this means they sleep for two days straight…right through our drive home. At least a mom can dream.

Photo courtesy of stock.xchng.

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Traveling With Teens
By: Weary Parent    2 days 12 hours 0 minutes ago
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The family and I took a road trip to Disney World this weekend. (In fact I’m blogging from my cell phone as I wait for them to ride the Tower of Terror because I’m a big chicken and refuse to ride with them. So please excuse any typographical errors…like usual.)

Disney World may be “the happiest place on Earth,” but, after a 2 day trip, our minivan sure isn’t. Traveling with kids, even teenagers (actually, especially teenagers) is no fun at all.

I thought teens would be easier to travel with because they are older. But I was mistaken. Our teens wrestled in the back of the car. They picked on their little brother. They got in to screaming matches with each other. I actually hollered out, “Don’t make me pull this car over and spank your butts.” At my teens.And I’m not going to lie. There was a poont where I considered leaving them on the side of the road to fend for themselves. It was very frustrating.

But we made it. And without any bodily harm. I consider that a success.

On our way here I realized family road trips have really changed over the years. When I was a little girl we played games in the car to pass the time. We played classic road trip games like the license plate game, the alphabet game, and I Spy. This trip (other than bickering) we barely spoke to each other. Instead we had iPods, XM radio, Gameboys, a PSP, and laptops to entertain us. I think the only real communicating going on in our minivan was Jill; the voice on the GPS.

How do you survive a road trip with your teens? I can use all the tips I can get because we still need to make the return trip home.

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New Moon Girls Offers Social Networking To Tweens
By: Weary Parent    5 days 15 hours 20 minutes ago
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The creators of New Moon Girls magazine have created a new social networking site for tween girls ages 8-12. It’s NewMoonGirls.com. The company calls it “a safe, secure and advertisement-free social network where girls can discover, create their own media, and share it with each other.” I wouldn’t call it completely commercial-free since they do advertise their own products, but it is a pretty slick site for young girls.

Like most social networking sites, NewMoonGirls.com provides girl with their own profile page. It’s called “My room.” On “My room” girls can include a picture and an “About Me” section along with “My Dreams” and “My Inspiration” as well as “My Favorites” and “My Pet.” When girls create this page it asks them for their first name only, their age, their country and state. No more information then that. So unlike MySpace, you won’t have to worry about them including their telephone, address or school information (assuming they don’t put that in the About Me section).

Girls can also add their own creations, including video or a song that they created and their own artwork (a picture, drawing or cartoon). They can also write a poem or a story. And they get the choice of either having their creations open to the public for the whole network or keeping them private so she’s the only one who can see it (like a diary). There is a section called “Voices” where you can find poems, stories and videos uploaded by other girls.

The “Voices” section also includes some Q&A. The Ask a Girl feature lets girls ask for advice and other girls provide the answers. This is monitored by an adult editor who reads every post before making it public. There’s also an Ask Luna section which seems to be kind of like a letters to the editor section where you can get answers to questions about the website and magazine.

To round it out, there is a Features tab that includes tons of information young girls care about. The Spotlight section includes books reviews, current events and special features. Changing the World gives girls information on how they can help the environment and participate in politics. In Body & Feelings girls can get accurate information about their bodies including info on body image, mood swings, puberty, her first period, and more. For the Curious includes interesting math and science facts and information. Arts & Culture let’s girls experience different cultures with stories from girls around the world. And the Sister to Sister page allows teen girls 13 and older offer advice to their younger “sisters.”

I’ve been poking around the site for a while and I’m pretty impressed. NewMoonGirls.com is fully COPPA-compliant and they provide adult moderation at all levels of communication. It’s a great way for young girls to learn about social networking in a safe environment. They can share their creativity, make new friends, and learn from other girls all over the world. And right now NewMoonGirls.com is offering a membership package including full access to NewMoonGirls.com and six issues of New Moon Girls magazine for $29.95 per year, reduced from $44.95. This might make a good holiday gift for that special tween girl in your life.

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My Teen Is Driving
By: Weary Parent    6 days 15 hours 52 minutes ago
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As of Tuesday night my 16-year-old is officially a licensed driver. He completed driver’s ed, got his certificate of completion and headed to the Department of Transportation for the real thing. My husband had to give consent. Then they took our son’s picture and gave him a license to operate a motor vehicle. And now I’m somewhere between scared to death and being proud of him.

In our state you get an intermediate license when you are only 16. The intermediate license has a few restrictions. He cannot drive between the hours of 12:30am and 5am. He needs to complete 10 more hours of supervised driving with a parent or family member over the age of 21 and at least 2 of those hours need to be after sunset and before sunrise. And he must have his intermediate license for at least 12 months before he can get an unrestricted full license.

That’s all fine and dandy, but what do parents get? They should at least hand out aspirin for the headaches we get worrying about our driving teens. Life seemed so much easier when they were toddlers and the only thing they drove were those plastic walkers.

We are getting ready for a family vacation. On our way to Thanksgiving dinner yesterday afternoon we were joking with the 16-year-old about how he was going to drive us all the way to Florida. He said, “Oh cool. This is where Grand Theft Auto comes in handy.” A look of fear crossed my face as he tried to explain. “I mean, in the game you have to drive your car and you have to watch the map in the lower right hand corner. It’s training for driving and keeping an eye on the GPS.”

Needless to say, I think my husband and I will be doing the driving.

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